Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
1 Peter 3:7
Today’s theme is one that confronts every man, including myself. And it is that 1 Peter 3:7 says this, Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. There will be those who fill their mouths saying that they have always taken to the letter everything that says 1 Peter 3:7. To be honest, I cannot make this statement but, on the contrary, admit that I have failed many times.
As I said at the beginning, this message confronts us all men. And, instead of seeking to justify our behavior, it is time to take our responsibility, admit our mistakes and amend the way. If today, all over the world, laws are introduced that establish strong obligations to men while undermining their rights, it is because we ourselves have not known how to exercise our manly functions or have abused by generations of our position. The result is the radical distortion of God’s plan for humanity.
Let us do what we have first. It is true that there is no guarantee that they will respond to us in the same way; but our priority must be to obey what God sets and He will take care of the rest. Living wisely with the woman and treating her as a more fragile vessel means not being a grumpy bear. The following is written in Colossians 3:19, Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them. And if we lack the wisdom to deal with the situation, let us pray to God in prayer and He will respond favorably.
Surely God will direct us to His Word and tell us something similar to what is written in Ephesians 5:25-28, Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
Certainly the Word of God also gives the command to women what to do and how to behave with their husbands. And it would be a foolish thing to say that most of them do their part. But that does not stop you, man, to fulfill yours. Remember that the commandment has been given by God, not your wife. So before whom you will respond for violating it is before God. Whether or not she fulfills what she has, it does not entitle you to do the same. Be responsible for what is your part and leave the rest to God.
Look closely at the comparison Paul makes in Ephesians 5:25-28, compare you, man, with Christ and your wife compares it to the church. Look carefully that Jesus Christ did not wait for all of us to repent of our sins to die on the cross. He took the first step, He gave Himself up before the first person showed repentance. That is our example, boys, the first step is ours. After that, let’s bend knees and, without a doubt, our prayers will be without hindrance and will be answered favorably. God bless you.